The ultimate emoji encoding scheme

This is my environment: Client -> iOS App, Server ->PHP and MySQL.

The data from client to server is done via HTTP POST.

The data from server to client is done with json.

I would like to add support for emojis or any utf8mb4 character in general. I'm looking for the right way for dealing with this under my scenario.

My questions are the following:

Does POST allow utf8mb4, or should I convert the data in the client to plain utf8?
If my DB has collation and character set utf8mb4, does it mean I should be able to store 'raw' emojis?
Should I try to work in the DB with utf8mb4 or is it safer/better/more supported to work in utf8 and encode symbols? If so, which encoding method should I use so that it works flawlessly in Objective-C and PHP (and java for the future android version)?

Right now I have the DB with utf8mb4 but I get errors when trying to store a raw emoji. On the other hand, I can store non-utf8 symbols such ¿ or á.

When I retrieve this symbols in PHP I first need to execute SET CHARACTER SET utf8 (if I get them in utf8mb4 the json_decode function doesn't work), then such symbols are encoded (e.g., ¿ is encoded to \u00bf).

MySQL's utf8 charset is not actually UTF-8, it's a subset of UTF-8 only supporting the basic plane (characters up to U+FFFF). Most emoji use code points higher than U+FFFF. MySQL's utf8mb4 is actual UTF-8 which can encode all those code points. Outside of MySQL there's no such thing as "utf8mb4", there's just UTF-8. So:

Does POST allow utf8mb4, or should I convert the data in the client to plain utf8?

Again, no such thing as "utf8mb4". HTTP POST requests support any raw bytes, if your client sends UTF-8 encoded data you're fine.

If my DB has collation and character set utf8mb4, does it mean I should be able to store 'raw' emojis?

Yes.

Should I try to work in the DB with utf8mb4 or is it safer/better/more supported to work in utf8 and encode symbols?

God no, use raw UTF-8 (utf8mb4) for all that is holy.

When I retrieve this symbols in PHP I first need to execute SET CHARACTER SET utf8

Well, there's your problem; channeling your data through MySQL's utf8 charset will discard any characters above U+FFFF. Use utf8mb4 all the way through MySQL.

if I get them in utf8mb4 the json_decode function doesn't work

You'll have to specify what that means exactly. PHP's JSON functions should be able to handle any Unicode code point just fine, as long as it's valid UTF-8:

echo json_encode('😀');
"\ud83d\ude00"

echo json_decode('"\ud83d\ude00"');
😀

Use utf8mb4 throughout MySQL:

SET NAMES utf8mb4
Declare the table/columns CHARACTER SET utf8mb4
Emoji and certain Chinese characters will work in utf8mb4, but not in MySQL's utf8.

Use UTF-8 throughout other things: