Can't connect to MySQL database from tomcat

Hey, I'm getting this error:

com.mysql.jdbc.exceptions.jdbc4.MySQLNonTransientConnectionException:
Could not create connection to database server. 
Attempted reconnect 3 times. Giving up.

I'm just trying to connect to the database. With this code

<%@page import="java.sql.*"%>

<%
try{
//  Class.forName("com.mysql.jdbc.Driver");
    Class.forName("org.gjt.mm.mysql.Driver");

    out.println("found");
} catch (ClassNotFoundException ex){
    out.println("Erro<br/>");
    out.println(ex.toString());
} catch (Exception e){
    out.println(e.toString());

}

Connection ocon;

try{
ocon = DriverManager.getConnection("jdbc:mysql://localhost/cpjcoimbra?autoReconnect=true", "*****", "*****"); //password matches
out.print("connected");
} catch (Exception e){
    out.println(e.toString()+"<br/>");
}

%>

It does find the driver but I'm getting that error when i try to connect to the database.

I have this permission on catalina 50.local.policy

grant codeBase "file:/var/lib/tomcat6/WEB-INF/lib/-" {
  permission java.security.AllPermission;
};

Anyone has any idea why that error shows up?

Edit: service mysql status gives this:

 * /usr/bin/mysqladmin  Ver 8.42 Distrib 5.1.37, for debian-linux-gnu on i486
Copyright 2000-2008 MySQL AB, 2008 Sun Microsystems, Inc.
This software comes with ABSOLUTELY NO WARRANTY. This is free software,
and you are welcome to modify and redistribute it under the GPL license

Server version      5.1.37-1ubuntu5
Protocol version    10
Connection      Localhost via UNIX socket
UNIX socket     /var/run/mysqld/mysqld.sock
Uptime:         1 hour 32 min 21 sec

Threads: 1  Questions: 103  Slow queries: 0  Opens: 171  Flush tables: 1  Open tables: 41  Queries per second avg: 0.18

The driver is wrong - use the "com.mysql.jdbc.Driver" class.

Scriptlet code in a JSP? Oh, my - that's not good.

But those are not the cause of your problem.

Did you GRANT permissions to that username and password? Here are sample steps:

Log in as root: mysql –h localhost –u root –p <ret>; password = <your admin password>
“create database x;”
“create user p identified by ‘q’;”
“grant all on x.* to ‘x’@’%’;”

Give the username p and password q you used to create the user when you connect to the database.

Make sure the service is up and listening on port 3306. Open a command shell and type 'netstat -a' and look for a listener on port 3306.

This entry from the MySQL bug database might be pertinent as well.

For future reference, I find it helpful to paste whatever error message I get into Google. It's likely that I'm not the first person to run into a particular problem.

Even if you manage to solve this and get it to work, this is still a fatally flawed design. The JSP is connecting directly to the database - no security, except for the username and password you've entered in plain text. You really don't want to do this.

You're having a connection problem. Separate that from the JSP for starters.