ok the problem was too many changes, I unzipped the solution again and just changed
the first parameter in the ProjectTypeGuids to {F85E285D-A4E0-4152-9332-AB1D724D3325}
so it looks like
<ProjectTypeGuids>{**F85E285D-A4E0-4152-9332-AB1D724D3325**};{349c5851-65df-11da-9384-00065b846f21};{fae04ec0-301f-11d3-bf4b-00c04f79efbc}</ProjectTypeGuids>
and I can see the project hurray!