I want to change the color of li which contains anchor when the mouse go over it, I make like this
 
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If you're wanting a nice hover effect then you'll want jquery, you'll also need jquery-color.js, the code is below:
<script type="text/javascript">
    $(function () {
        $('#menu .dummyclass').mouseover(function () {
            $(this).animate({
                backgroundColor: '#FF0000'
            }, 50, function () { });
        });
    });
    $(function () {
        $('#menu .dummyclass').mouseleave(function () {
            $(this).animate({
                backgroundColor: '#000000'
            }, 600, function () { });
        });
    });
</script>
HTML Markup:
<div id="menu">
    <ul>
        <li class="dummyclass">Home</li>
        <li class="dummyclass">Fixtures</li>
        <li class="dummyclass">Results</li>
        <li class="dummyclass">Tables</li>
        <li class="dummyclass">Constitution</li>
        <li class="dummyclass" style="border-right: none;">Contact Us</li>
    </ul>
</div>
CSS:
#menu ul li .dummyclass {
    /*Dummy class to aid hovering with jQuery*/
}
                                                                        Do it like this:
$("a[id='son']").hover(function(){
   $(this).closest("li.sonItem").css("background-color","black");  
});
NOTE: This will work ok, however you should never have more than 1 element with the same id (you can, but it's a very, very bad practice), it'd be better if you use a class, for example class="son", and your selector would be $("a.son").
Cheers
Id is unique so dont repeat, u can use in class
$(document).ready(function(){
  $(".son").hover(function(){
    $(".sonItem").css("background-color","black");
    },function(){
    $(".sonItem").css("background-color","white");
    });
});
<ul id="SonsItemList">
     <li class="sonItem"><a class="son" href="#" >son 1</a></li>
      <li class="sonItem"><a class="son" href="#" >son 2</a></li>        
</ul>
                                                                        You don't need any JavaScript at all. You can use CSS:
li.sonItem:hover 
{
    background-color: black;
}