How exactly does one go about:
You need the GetChunk and AppendChunk functions for that.
Here's a tutorial: How To Read and Write BLOBs Using GetChunk and AppendChunk.
This tutorial is a bit dated, but as far as I know this is still the best way to load/save pictures in a database from VBA.
Note that in SQL Server, you should use a varbinary(max) field (instead of the image suggested in the tutorial) to store the pictures.
You can't display a picture directly from the database. You have to load it from the database (see above), store it in a temp folder and display it from there.
To get Windows' temp folder, use Environ("temp") or the GetTempPath API function.
To display the picture you can either set it as the background of the form:
Me.Picture = "c:\...\temp\picture.jpg"
...or use a image control:
Me.NameOfImageControl.Picture = "c:\...\temp\picture.jpg"