Is this what you are trying to do ?
select {
text-align: center;
text-align-last: center;
/* webkit*/
}
option {
text-align: left;
/* reset to left*/
}
<select name="number-of-adults" class="wpcf7-form-control wpcf7-select" aria-invalid="false">
<option value="ADULTS*">ADULTS*</option>
<option value="1">1</option>
<option value="2">2</option>
<option value="3">3</option>
<option value="4">4</option>
<option value="5">5</option>
<option value="6">6</option>
<option value="7">7</option>
<option value="8">8</option>
</select>
<select name="number-of-adults" class="wpcf7-form-control wpcf7-select" aria-invalid="false">
<option value="ADULTS*">ADULTS*</option>
<option value="1" selected="true">1</option>
<option value="2">2</option>
<option value="3">3</option>
<option value="4">4</option>
<option value="5">5</option>
<option value="6">6</option>
<option value="7">7</option>
<option value="8">8</option>
</select>
This is partially supported by browsers (issues, at least, in Edge and Safari)