So I\'m learning about SMTP and am trying to use telnet to send some mail over SMTP.
I\'ve easilly been able to send mail to my gmail a
First of all, it looks like you're using the wrong port. Gmail exposes port 465 for SMTP over SSL and port 587 for SMTP with STARTTLS, as documented here. The difference between these two is that SMTP over SSL first establishes a secure SSL/TLS connection and conducts SMTP over that connection, and SMTP with STARTTLS starts with unencrypted SMTP and then switches to SSL/TLS. This is why you don't get a response to your HELO.
$ telnet smtp.gmail.com 587
Trying 74.125.25.108...
Connected to gmail-smtp-msa.l.google.com.
Escape character is '^]'.
220 mx.google.com ESMTP fr1sm24834956pbb.26 - gsmtp
HELO <me@test.com>
250 mx.google.com at your service
STARTTLS
220 2.0.0 Ready to start TLS
But even if you telnet to port 587 you still aren't going to be able to send any email by hand. In order to do anything interesting you will have to STARTTLS, and you won't be able to handle the SSL/TLS binary protocol to negotiate the encryption.
The telnet client will not negotiate a TLS session for you. You should use another tool, such as OpenSSL's s_client. The following issues the STARTTLS command for you and handles the TLS negotiation:
$ openssl s_client -starttls smtp -connect smtp.gmail.com:587 -crlf
Alternatively, you could connect directly to the SMTPS port:
$ openssl s_client -connect smtp.gmail.com:465 -crlf