It\'s a trivial task to find out if an object is referenced by something else or not. What I\'d like to do is identify whether or not it\'s actually being used
With SQL Server 2005, you can use the dynamic management view sys.dm_db_index_usage_stats. The name says "index" but that's a little misleading - every table has an entry in here, even if it doesn't have any indexes. Here's a useful query from SQL Magazine:
SELECT
t.name AS 'Table',
SUM(i.user_seeks + i.user_scans + i.user_lookups)
AS 'Total accesses',
SUM(i.user_seeks) AS 'Seeks',
SUM(i.user_scans) AS 'Scans',
SUM(i.user_lookups) AS 'Lookups'
FROM
sys.dm_db_index_usage_stats i RIGHT OUTER JOIN
sys.tables t ON (t.object_id = i.object_id)
GROUP BY
i.object_id,
t.name
ORDER BY [Total accesses] DESC
Here's the original article:
http://www.sqlmag.com/Article/ArticleID/53878/sql_server_53878.html
Keep in mind that these usage statistics reset when SQL Server restarts.