Trying to load a shared lib out of the current \'.\' dir in a unit test on osx.
What works on Linux and Netbsd there is a symlink _mymodule.so --> ../.libs/
Just use *.so as your module extensions in OS X too. I have a vague memory of not being able to load .dylib's and it turning out to be an issue with python itself. . . but I can't find the mailing list post now.
However, rest assured you're following standard practice by using *.so's even on OS X. The only *.dylib's in the entire framework are the libsvn_swig ones.
find /System/Library/Frameworks/Python.framework/Versions/2.6/ -name "*.so"
/System/Library/Frameworks/Python.framework/Versions/2.6//Extras/X11/xcb/xcb.0.0.0.so
/System/Library/Frameworks/Python.framework/Versions/2.6//Extras/X11/xcb/xcb.0.so
/System/Library/Frameworks/Python.framework/Versions/2.6//Extras/X11/xcb/xcb.so
/System/Library/Frameworks/Python.framework/Versions/2.6//Extras/lib/python/CoreGraphics/_CoreGraphics.so
/System/Library/Frameworks/Python.framework/Versions/2.6//Extras/lib/python/OpenSSL/SSL.so
/System/Library/Frameworks/Python.framework/Versions/2.6//Extras/lib/python/OpenSSL/crypto.so
/System/Library/Frameworks/Python.framework/Versions/2.6//Extras/lib/python/OpenSSL/rand.so
/System/Library/Frameworks/Python.framework/Versions/2.6//Extras/lib/python/PyObjC/AppKit/_appmain.so
/System/Library/Frameworks/Python.framework/Versions/2.6//Extras/lib/python/PyObjC/AppKit/_carbon.so
/System/Library/Frameworks/Python.framework/Versions/2.6//Extras/lib/python/PyObjC/AppKit/_inlines.so
/System/Library/Frameworks/Python.framework/Versions/2.6//Extras/lib/python/PyObjC/AppKit/_nsbezierpath.so
/System/Library/Frameworks/Python.framework/Versions/2.6//Extras/lib/python/PyObjC/AppKit/_nsbitmap.so
/System/Library/Frameworks/Python.framework/Versions/2.6//Extras/lib/python/PyObjC/AppKit/_nsfont.so
/System/Library/Frameworks/Python.framework/Versions/2.6//Extras/lib/python/PyObjC/AppKit/_nsquickdrawview.so
/System/Library/Frameworks/Python.framework/Versions/2.6//Extras/lib/python/PyObjC/AppKit/_nsview.so
/System/Library/Frameworks/Python.framework/Versions/2.6//Extras/lib/python/PyObjC/AppKit/_nswindow.so
/System/Library/Frameworks/Python.framework/Versions/2.6//Extras/lib/python/PyObjC/CFNetwork/_manual.so