My app was rejected in play store for \"make sure it doesn\'t enable background play of YouTube videos\". I used the basic Webview component and loaded a youtube page. After
Simply add this prop to the web view
mediaPlaybackRequiresUserAction={true}
 <WebView
   mediaPlaybackRequiresUserAction={true}
 />
                                                                        Ok, so i ended up creating my own MyReactWebViewManager:
public class MyReactWebViewManager extends SimpleViewManager<WebView> {
private static final String REACT_CLASS = "RCTMyWebView";
....
And in it, i created MyReactWebView with the following onHostPause override:
private static class MyReactWebView extends WebView implements LifecycleEventListener { 
    ...
    @Override
    public void onHostResume() {
        // do nothing
        Log.i(REACT_CLASS,"onHostResume");
        this.onResume();
    }
    @Override
    public void onHostPause() {
        // do nothing
        Log.i(REACT_CLASS,"onHostPause");
        this.onPause();
    }
Hopefully, this will be handled by react-native in the future.
You could use AppState from react-native: documentation.
And show the webview (which contains your YouTube embed) only if the app state is 'active'
import React, {Component} from 'react'
import {AppState, WebView} from 'react-native'
class AppStateExample extends Component {
  state = {
      appState: AppState.currentState
  }
  componentDidMount() {
      AppState.addEventListener('change', this._handleAppStateChange);
  }
  componentWillUnmount() {
      AppState.removeEventListener('change', this._handleAppStateChange);
  }
  _handleAppStateChange = (nextAppState) => {        
      this.setState({appState: nextAppState});
  }
  render() {
    return (
      {this.state.appState == 'active' &&
           <WebView />
      }
    )
  }
}
This is good if you are working with Expo, no need to touch any native code.