A FocusListener will help, for example...
JXDatePicker dp = new JXDatePicker();
dp.getEditor().addFocusListener(new FocusAdapter() {
@Override
public void focusLost(FocusEvent e) {
// Calculate age
Date date = dp.getDate();
}
});
See How to Write a Focus Listener for more details
The age calculation is best done using either JodaTime or Java 8's new Time API
Java 8
Date date = // Date from date picker
LocalDate ld = date.toInstant().atZone(ZoneId.systemDefault()).toLocalDate();
//LocalDate ld = LocalDate.of(1972, Month.MARCH, 8);
Period p = Period.between(ld, LocalDate.now());
System.out.println(p.getYears());
System.out.println(p.getMonths());
System.out.println(p.getDays());
Which outputs something like...
42
11
18
Joda-Time
Date date = // Date from date picker
LocalDate ld = LocalDate.fromDateFields(date);
Period p = Period.fieldDifference(ld, LocalDate.now());
System.out.println(p.getYears());
System.out.println(p.getMonths());
System.out.println(p.getDays());