This is an important problem, and I've love to see more direct framework/language support to solve it. The solution you have requires a lot of boilerplate. It might be simple to automate some of the boilerplate by using code generation.
You'd generate a partial class that contains all the freezable properties. It would be fairly simple to make a reusable T4 template for this.
The template would take this for input:
- namespace
- class name
- list of property name/type tuples
And would output a C# file, containing:
- namespace declaration
- partial class
- each of the properties, with the corresponding types, a backing field, a getter, and a setter which invokes the FailIfFrozen method
AOP tags on freezable properties could also work, but it would require more dependencies, whereas T4 is built into newer versions of Visual Studio.
Another scenario which is very much like this is the INotifyPropertyChanged
interface. Solutions for that problem are likely to be applicable to this problem.