With administrative permissions im mysql, how can I see all the open connections to a specific db in my server?
You can invoke MySQL show status command
show status like 'Conn%';
For more info read Show open database connections
As well you can use:
mysql> show status like '%onn%';
+--------------------------+-------+
| Variable_name | Value |
+--------------------------+-------+
| Aborted_connects | 0 |
| Connections | 303 |
| Max_used_connections | 127 |
| Ssl_client_connects | 0 |
| Ssl_connect_renegotiates | 0 |
| Ssl_finished_connects | 0 |
| Threads_connected | 127 |
+--------------------------+-------+
7 rows in set (0.01 sec)
Feel free to use Mysql-server-status-variables or Too-many-connections-problem