GWT is a technology masterpiece. It unites client and server programming making it one coherent application - the way software was written before "layering", and the way it should be written. It eliminates different skills sets, miscommunication between team members, and generally the whole Web Design phase: both the artistic and programming. And it is the closest you'd get to mobile e.g. Android development. In fact GWT was designed to generate different native UIs, not just HTML. Though it requires enormous discipline to ensure such decoupling - to keep your inner layers presentation-agnostic.
The first mistake you should avoid, which took me four years to realize, is using third-party extensions like EXT-GWT aka GXT and SmartGWT. It is very tempting to start using their pretty desktopish widgets instead of investing in your own styling, but I cannot tell how many problems I had with SmartGWT until I finally got fed up. In short it freezes the core GWT feature set at the certain (pretty outdated) level and then builds on top of it. Also keep in mind, that chiseled desktop look and feel looks silly nowadays, not to mention the sluggish performance, tons of bugs, and compatibility features - especially on mobile devices. You want to stay as close to the native browser controls, as possible i.e. dropdowns rendered as native <select> elements, not some custom-painted controls.
Thanks to mobile trends the whole UX is becoming simpler and flatter, so you don't need to do much to style a sharp-looking application. Though if you want "3D" look, there are also gradients. CSS3 made everything easy, and GWT wraps it an elegant object-oriented manner unlike the raw CSS. So don't be discouraged by looking at rather ugly barebones controls in the GWT Showcase. The GWT team intentionally didn't offer any styling, because it it the developer's job.
The rest is pretty much conventional browser programming in strongly typed Java with beautiful concise APIs. But of course never forgetting your code runs inside the browser, so all of the calls are asynchronous e.g. you cannot call GWT-RPC methods in a loop (to populate some list), but need to recursively chain them if you ever come to to this situation.
There are some self-proclaimed "anti-patterns" like don't use GWT-RPC. It's been good to me so far: for 10 years. Simplicity is key. I wouldn't think even a second to sacrifice some marginal performance for code elegance and maintainability. besides this is not where your bottlenecks would be - in the database. Of course mind how much data you are sending to the client.
And if you cannot find or style the existing gadget - read rich HTML5 element set, you can always wrap a third-party one. I did it with a popular jQuery FullCalendar. Not rocket science at all. Everything else like Google Maps and Google Charts has semi-official GWT wrappers.
GWT is perfect. The only reason it doesn't get enough love is because early Internet adopters who still influence the industry didn't come from Computer Science and object-oriented languages to appreciate them. They have either artistic (Photoshop/WordPress) or network (Perl/Python) background.