You really want to use at. It is exactly made for this purpose.
echo /usr/bin/the_command options | at now + 1 day
However if you don't have at, or your hosting company doesn't provide access to it, you could make a self-deleting cron entry.
Sadly, this will remove all your cron entries. However, if you only have one, this is fine.
0 0 2 12 * crontab -r ; /home/adm/bin/the_command options
The command crontab -r
removes your crontab entry. Luckily the rest of the command line will still execute.
WARNING: This is dangerous! It removes ALL cron entries. If you have many, this will remove them all, not just the one that has the "crontab -r" line!