I know the differences between the two. One notable thing is that abort() sends SIGABRT signal, so it may be relevant when your software relies on them. But for
Using abort will dump core, if the user has core dumps enabled. So as a rule of thumb, I'd use abort if you're so unsure about what's gone wrong that the only way to get useful information about it is by analysing a core dump.
If you can safely exit from any given point, and don't need the core dump, then exit is a nicer approach.