I am trying to deploy to Heroku but can\'t because the default sqlite3 server is still in place.
Detected sqlite3 gem which is not supported on Heroku.
Don't do it. You are just going to run into problems down the road. Use the same database in production and development. There are a lot of resources available in documenting the switch from a sqlite to postgres database.
Take the time and switch.
Have a look at this Rails Cast.
http://railscasts.com/episodes/342-migrating-to-postgresql?view=asciicast