What syntax would I use to get the number of bytes representing a string and compare them to the number of bytes representing an ArrayList holding that string, for
I don't think you've got much choice but to modify your code so that it measures the message sizes at runtime.
You could just serialize example objects and capture and measure the serialized size. This has the following problems:
If you can manage this, you will get more accurate results if you can measure the actual messages. This would most likely entail modifying the agent framework to count, measure and (ideally) classify messages into different kinds. The framework might already have hooks for doing this.
The method doesn't have to be dead-on accurate, as long as it scales proportionally to the actual size of the object. E.g. a Vector of strings of length 4 will report as larger than a Vector of strings of length 5.
(I assume that you meant smaller than ...)
Your example illustrates one of the problems of trying to estimate serialized object sizes. A serialization of a Vector of size 4 could be smaller ... or larger ... that a Vector of size 5. It depends on what the String values are. Additionally, if a message contains two Vector objects, the serialized size occupied by the vectors will be less that sum of the sizes of the two vectors when they are serialized separately.