I\'m trying to remove a previously tracked directory from git, which works, but it\'s being added back with each subsequent git add ., git add -A, etc.
You probably have a negative rule (include-again rule, the one that starts with an !) in your .gitignore file somewhere after the node_modules line.
git check-ignore has a bug/ambiguity in the docs. You expect that if git check-ignore node_modules/ prints node_modules/, then node_modules/ is ignored. But actually it prints a pathname if that pathname matches any ignore pattern - positive or negative. The only way to be sure is to use the -v (--verbose) option, which will make git check-ignore print the matching pattern.
Moreover, if git check-ignore -v says a directory is ignored, it doesn't necessarily mean that all files in that directory are ignored. Example repo:
/
.git/
.gitignore
node_modules/
bar
foo
$ cat .gitignore
/node_modules/*
!/node_modules/foo
$ git check-ignore -v node_modules/
.gitignore:1:/node_modules/* node_modules/
^ positive pattern => ignored
$ git check-ignore -v node_modules/foo
.gitignore:2:!/node_modules/foo node_modules/foo
^ negative pattern => not ignored
$ git add -A
$ git status
# On branch master
# Changes to be committed:
# (use "git reset HEAD ..." to unstage)
#
# new file: node_modules/foo
#
So if git check-ignore -v node_modules/ says node_modules/ is ignored, do git add -A node_modules/ and then run git check-ignore -v --no-index against individual files that got added, to discover why they were added.
Update: I didn't expect that: your .gitignore file is in "UTF-16 with BOM (byte order mark)" encoding:
$ cat .gitignore | hexdump -vC
00000000 ff fe 6e 00 6f 00 64 00 65 00 5f 00 6d 00 6f 00 |..n.o.d.e._.m.o.|
00000010 64 00 75 00 6c 00 65 00 73 00 0d 00 0a 00 |d.u.l.e.s.....|
That's why git probably can't handle it. Save the file in UTF-8 without BOM, that should fix the problem. But I also suggest filing a bug report against git check-ignore - in this corner case its output is clearly not consistent with what git actually ignores.