I am looking for a pattern, algorithm, or library that will take a set of dates and return a description of the recurrence if one exits, i.e. the set [11-01-2010, 11-08-2010, 11
If your purpose is to generate human-readable descriptions of the pattern, as in your "Every Monday in November", then you probably want to start by enumerating the possible descriptions. Descriptions can be broken down into frequency and bounds, for example,
Frequency:
Bounds:
There won't be all that many of each, and you can check for them one by one.