Doesn\'t an ORM usually involve doing something like a select *?
If I have a table, MyThing, with column A, B, C, D, etc, then there typically would be an object, MyThin
There are two separate issues to consider.
To begin, it is quite common when using an ORM for the table and the object to have quite different "shapes", this is one reason why many ORM tools support quite complex mappings.
A good example is when a table is partially denormalised, with columns containing redundant information (often, this is done to improve query or reporting performance). When this occurs, it is more efficient for the ORM to request just the columns it requires, than to have all the extra columns brought back and ignored.
The question of why "Select *" is evil is separate, and the answer falls into two halves.
When executing "select *" the database server has no obligation to return the columns in any particular order, and in fact could reasonably return the columns in a different order every time, though almost no databases do this.
Problem is, when a typical developer observes that the columns returned seem to be in a consistent order, the assumption is made that the columns will always be in that order, and then you have code making unwarranted assumptions, just waiting to fail. Worse, that failure may not be fatal, but may simply involve, say, using Year of Birth in place of Account Balance.
The other issue with "Select *" revolves around table ownership - in many large companies, the DBA controls the schema, and makes changes as required by major systems. If your tool is executing "select *" then you only get the current columns - if the DBA has removed a redundant column that you need, you get no error, and your code may blunder ahead causing all sorts of damage. By explicitly requesting the fields you require, you ensure that your system will break rather than process the wrong information.