I want to match strings that do not contain more than 3 of the same character repeated in a row. So:
To match strings not containing a character repeated more than 3 times consecutively:
^((.)\2?(?!\2\2))+$
How it works:
^ Start of string
(
(.) Match any character (not a new line) and store it for back reference.
\2? Optionally match one more exact copies of that character.
(?! Make sure the upcoming character(s) is/are not the same character.
\2\2 Repeat '\2' for as many times as you need
)
)+ Do ad nauseam
$ End of string
So, the number of /2 in your whole expression will be the number of times you allow a character to be repeated consecutively, any more and you won't get a match.
E.g.
^((.)\2?(?!\2\2\2))+$ will match all strings that don't repeat a character more than 4 times in a row.
^((.)\2?(?!\2\2\2\2))+$ will match all strings that don't repeat a character more than 5 times in a row.
Please be aware this solution uses negative lookahead, but not all not all regex flavors support it.