Determine if server is listening when using udp

Question

The setting: I want to write a point-to-point Connection class that, when used, does not differentiate between server and client. The first host wh

Answer 1

With UDP, the communication model is akin to a message in a bottle: you know you sent it, but there's no way to know if anyone ever received it.

You need to manually establish a communication protocol to determine if the remote party is listening (e.g. have them send a "Yes, I 'm here" response). This would require both endpoints to accept UDP datagrams.