When using the CB_SETCURSEL message, the CBN_SELCHANGE message is not sent.
How to notify a control that the selection was changed
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[DllImport("User32.dll", EntryPoint = "SendMessage")]
private static extern int SendMessage(IntPtr hwnd, int msg, int wParam, int lParam);
[DllImport("user32.dll", EntryPoint = "GetWindowLong")]
private static extern IntPtr GetWindowLongPtr32(IntPtr hWnd, int nIndex);
[DllImport("user32.dll", EntryPoint = "GetWindowLongPtr")]
private static extern IntPtr GetWindowLongPtr64(IntPtr hWnd, int nIndex);
public static IntPtr GetWindowLongPtr(IntPtr hWnd, int nIndex)
{
   if (IntPtr.Size == 8)
        return GetWindowLongPtr64(hWnd, nIndex);
   else
        return GetWindowLongPtr32(hWnd, nIndex);
}
static int MakeWParam(int loWord, int hiWord)
{
     return (loWord & 0xFFFF) + ((hiWord & 0xFFFF) << 16);
}
public const int CB_SETCURSEL = 0x014E;
public const int CBN_SELCHANGE = 0x0001;
public enum GWL
{
            GWL_WNDPROC = (-4),
            GWL_HINSTANCE = (-6),
            GWL_HWNDPARENT = (-8),
            GWL_STYLE = (-16),
            GWL_EXSTYLE = (-20),
            GWL_USERDATA = (-21),
            GWL_ID = (-12)
}
public static IntPtr Hwnd_select_control_parent = IntPtr.Zero;
public static IntPtr Hwnd_select_control = IntPtr.Zero;
static void changeit()
{
// Google WinSpy for tips on how to figure out how to get window handles from known ctrl_id
   Hwnd_select_control = 14298; // or whatever the handle of the combo box is
// Get the parent of the selectbox control
   Hwnd_select_control_parent = GetWindowLongPtr(service_window_control, (int)GWL.GWL_HWNDPARENT);
// Get the control id of the selectbox if you don't already have it
   IntPtr nID = GetWindowLongPtr(Hwnd_select_control, (int)GWL.GWL_ID);
   int ctrl_id = nID.ToInt32();
// Change the combo box to the value "My Value"
   SendMessage(Hwnd_select_control, CB_SETCURSEL, "My Value", null);
// low ID is the ctrl_id of the combo box, high id is CBN_SELCHANGE
   int send_cbn_selchange = MakeWParam(ctrl_id, CBN_SELCHANGE); 
// Send the WM_COMMAND to the parent, not the control itself
   SendMessage(Hwnd_serviceselect_control_parent, 0x111 /* WM_COMMAND */, send_cbn_selchange, Hwnd_serviceselect_control.ToInt32()); 
}