Remote Simulator to Windows option is not exists in Tools / Options / Xamarin / IOS Settings.
Remote Simulator to Windows
Its seen like this :
What I have done so far :
Let your voice be heard if you feel iOS Simulator should be included in other levels of VS.
https://xamarin.uservoice.com/forums/144858-xamarin-platform-suggestions/suggestions/17194163-allow-use-of-remoted-ios-simulator-from-all-editio