I have the following select:
Erm... whyever not good old DOM methods? For a single-select:
var idx= document.getElementById('end').selectedIndex;
// or $('#end')[0].selectedIndex if you must
Or, which will also work on multi-selects, get the option element node you're interested in and fetch option.index on it.
This is massively faster and simpler than getting jQuery to process complex selectors.