In my main process I create a renderer window:
var mainWindow = new BrowserWindow({ height: 600, width: 800, x: 0, y: 0, frame: false,
Have a look at the did-finish-load event mentioned in the Electron browser-window documentation.
did-finish-load
mainWindow.once('did-finish-load', () => { // Send Message })
There seems to be a dom-ready event too.
dom-ready