As most of you know, email is very insecure. Even with a SSL-secured connection between the client and the server that sends an email, the message itself will be in plaintex
IMO, the most practical solution for the situation is using Pidgin IM client with Off-the-Record (no-logging) and pidgin-encrypt (end-to-end assymetric-encryption) together. The message will be destroyed as soon as the chat window is closed, and in emergency, you can just unplug the computer to close the chat window.