I\'m looking for a standard SQL \"UPSERT\" statement. A one call for insert and update if exists.
I\'m looking for a working, efficient and cross platfo
The syntax for doing an upsert in a single command varies by RDBMS.
See Wikipedia for more.
If you want a cross platform solution, then you'll need to use multiple commands. First check for the existing row, then conditionally insert or update as appropriate.