is there any sort of XY-Layout to Java?
So I can set a Button at the X and Y cordinate and that it is suppose to be that big etc.... Because this border layout and
The reason components resize is so stuff looks nice whatever size the window is, so Swing discourages straight X-Y position. You might want to have a look at GroupLayout http://java.sun.com/docs/books/tutorial/uiswing/layout/group.html which is designed for GUI builders, and the page mentioned above describes using invisible components to absorb the stretches. eg:layout.setAutoCreateGaps(true);
SpringLayout might also be useful - see the visual guide
If you really want X and Y then set the layout manager to null, and use setLocation() or setBounds(). I REALLY REALLY wouldn't recommend this, but it does work. Have a read of this tutorial