We are building an app using the MVVM pattern, we have controllers that wire up all the views and viewmodels using DI. All examples of MVVM I\'ve seen are really simplistic
I use a similar setup to you. In my controller, where my DI and view injection goes down, I sometimes keep reference to the ViewModel (which hold the View). Some cases I may have an event on the VM which is handled by the controller. In other, extreme cases (like if the VM/V was created outside the controller, say in another VM), I may even use the EventAggregator (with a strong ref) to listen to events that may be fired on the VM. In that case, a stored ref to the VM is not needed.