I am having problems removing another entity through cascade delete-orphan. It works when I clear the associated set collection, but not when I make the set collection null.
I think its because hibernate uses its own collection implementations (which is why the docs say you MUST declare collections as interfaces, not implementations), and the collection implementations obey the semantics of you transitive persistence settings. So, when you do
cats.getBla().clear()
the getBla() part is the hibernate collection implementation, which knows to remove the children from the session when clear() is called.
When you do
cats.setBla(null);
you haven't removed the collection, you have changed the parent's reference to the collection to null. The collection probably still exists in the session.