I have gone through various books on stateful and stateless session bean and how they work. I want to know the real usage of these ejbs and advantages over using plain java
Stateless session bean are lightweight: they do not store information about a specific user. They are usually used in a static way. For example a client ask for a product information will communicate with a stateless session bean. ("You want the price of product 'YXZ', here you go!")
Stateful session bean however remember's the client information. They contains data about the user actions. For example, let's say a user go through a shopping cart. The steps will be stored in a stateful session bean (for example, user it at the payment step).
You really need both type of session bean in any website. Unless you web site is so basic that anything can be done with stateless session bean (a read-only web site really).
Any web site that track a user through cookies, will need a stateful session bean. Be aware however that you can decide to put very little session information in a session bean and store that information in a database. But you still need some session management.