I have a project which I check out remotely from my VM.
Now it checks out all files except the one that he doesn\'t see.
Which happens to be the .git>
Your solution should work, as illustrated in the comments of "Display hidden dot files and directories in NetBeans":
In Netbeans 7.1 it's also in
Tools -> Options -> Miscellaneous -> Files
^(CVS|SCCS|vssver.?\.scc|#.*#|%.*%|_svn)$|~$|^\.(?!htaccess$).*$
Just the remove the
.*at the end and you're fine.
But all the references I have seen (like my old answer) mention that you need to restart NetBeans to see that updated pattern takes effect.
Or at least try a Source->Scan for External Changes, as mentioned in "How do I refresh Netbeans workspace?".