I would like to make an interaction plot to visually display the difference or similarity in slopes of interaction of a categorical variable (4 levels) and a standardized co
The effects package has support for lme4 models, and should be able to do what you want.
effects: Effect Displays for Linear, Generalized Linear, and Other Models
Graphical and tabular effect displays, e.g., of interactions, for various statistical models with linear predictors.
It also comes with two slightly outdated papers (you can think of them as vignettes).