anyone have any experience of using them together? How well does it work? or is it just too much grief?
There is a related question. In one of the answers to that question an article was suggested that seems to be useful:
Jim Holmes has an awesome blog post that goes through how to make these two products work in the same install.
http://frazzleddad.blogspot.com/2010/01/making-devexpress-resharper-play-nicely.html
I don't even want to think about how many hours and install permutations it took to come up with this sequence.
I did not try it.