I have a table as such
Col 1 Col 2 Col 3 1 A 1 2 A 2 3 B 1 4 C 1 5 C 2 6 D 1
Ho
It's a bit hard to know exactly what you're trying to get, but this is my best guess:
SELECT * FROM theTable WHERE col2 NOT IN (SELECT col2 FROM theTable WHERE col3 <> 1)