How to select item matching Only IN List in sql server

Question

How can one select only the items he want in the IN list? for example

select * from pagetags where TagID in (1,2,4)

Now I want all the page

Answer 1

The selected answer from Martin Smith

SELECT PageID
FROM   pagetags
WHERE  TagID IN ( 1, 2, 4 )
GROUP  BY PageID
HAVING Count(DISTINCT TagID) = 3

is correct but if speed is a problem then try these.

I have a large table doing the same thing and got 10x better performance with the following.
0.2 seconds versus 2.0 seconds for query returning 272 from a table with 3 million rows.
Also tested on a bigger table with 5 tags and same 10x but now 0.5 versus 5.0.
Index is PageID, TagID with millions of PageID and hundreds of TagID.
Common scenario where many objects are tagged multivalue property.

    SELECT distinct(p1.PageID)
    FROM   pagetags p1
    JOIN   pagetags p2
      ON   p2.PageID = p1.PageID
      AND  p2.TagID = 2 
    JOIN   pagetags p3
      ON   p3.PageID = p1.PageID
      AND  p3.TagID = 4
    WHERE  p1.PageID = 1
 ORDER BY  p1.PageID

or

   SELECT  distinct(PageID)
    FROM   pagetags
    WHERE  TagID = 1
   INTERSECT
   SELECT  distinct(PageID)
    FROM   pagetags
    WHERE  TagID = 2 
   INTERSECT
   SELECT  distinct(PageID)
    FROM   pagetags
    WHERE  TagID = 4 
 ORDER BY  PageID

Prefer the last as with over 5 joins the query optimizer often will make some bad decisions.
And with this have not used up the Group By if you need it for another aggregation.