Generally, I like to keep an application completely ignorant of the IoC container. However I have ran into problems where I needed to access it. To abstract away the pain
I've seen that even Ayende implements this pattern in the Rhino Commons code, but I'd advise against using it wherever possible. There's a reason Castle Windsor doesn't have this code by default. StructureMap does, but Jeremy Miller has been moving away from it. Ideally, you should regard the container itself with as much suspicion as any global variable.
However, as an alternative, you could always configure your container to resolve IDependencyResolver as a reference to your container. This may sound crazy, but it's significantly more flexible. Just remember the rule of thumb that an object should call "new" or perform processing, but not both. For "call new" replace with "resolve a reference".