There are a few ways to test if a nonblocking connect succeeds.
call getpeername() first, if it failed with error ENOTCONN, the connection failed. then call getsockopt with SO_ERROR to get the pending error on the socket
call read with a length of 0. if the read failed, the connection failed, and the errno for read indicates why the connection failed; read returns 0 if connection succeeds
call connect again; if the errno is EISCONN, the connection is already connected and the first connect succeeded.