I have moved an existing node.js + express project to VS because I prefer the IDE over JetBrains for now (used VS for years, only peeked into Webstorm).
I used NTVS
Its pretty straight forward with NTVS, you can download required version for your windows from github here
Once you install NTVS, NodeJS project templates will be added
Now, Goto File->New project -> Basic NodeJS Express 3 application (it will be available in javascript project templates)
Now just goto debug and select Start Debugging, add breakpoints where ever required and you can start debugging