In my experience the question becomes fairly moot if you're using abstractions sufficiently. Coupling to a library is just like coupling to any other interface. Thus you want to reduce accidental coupling and the scope of rewrite necessary if you need to swap out the implementation. Don't bind your application logic to some construct, but don't just form a bunch of stupid (literally) wrappers around something and expect to gain any benefit.
A wrapper doesn't usually gain you anything unless it's answering a specific purpose (such as polymorphizing a non-polymorphic construct). They often show up in refactoring, but I wouldn't recommend forming an architecture on them. There's a few exceptions of course, but there is with any principle.
This doesn't speak toward adapters. An adapter can be a pretty important component for when you want to actually alter the interface of a library and its use to be in line with architecture, code, or domain concepts in your project.
