Your C++ program is using Qt library (also coded in C++). The Qt library will be using Windows CreateWindowEx function (which was coded in C inside kernel32.dll). Or under Linux it may be using Xlib (also coded in C), but it could as well be sending the raw bytes that in X protocol mean "Please create a window for me".
Related to your catch-22 question is the historical note that “the first C++ compiler was written in C++”, although actually it was a C compiler with a few C++ notions, enough so it could compile the first version, which could then compile itself.
Similarly, the GCC compiler uses GCC extensions: it is first compiled to a version then used to recompile itself. (GCC build instructions)
