How does C++ ... suddenly get such capabilities through libraries
written in C++ themselves ?
There's nothing magical about using other libraries. Libraries are simple big bags of functions that you can call.
Consider yourself writing a function like this
void addExclamation(std::string &str)
{
str.push_back('!');
}
Now if you include that file you can write addExclamation(myVeryOwnString);. Now you might ask, "how did C++ suddenly get the capability to add exclamation points to a string?" The answer is easy: you wrote a function to do that then you called it.
So to answer your question about how C++ can get capabilities to draw windows through libraries written in C++, the answer is the same. Someone else wrote function(s) to do that, and then compiled them and gave them to you in the form of a library.
The other questions answer how the window drawing actually works, but you sounded confused about how libraries work so I wanted to address the most fundamental part of your question.
