Big differences:
- Platform
- Object orientation
- Laziness
The similarities are more important than the differences. Basically, you should use F# if you are on .NET already, Haskell otherwise. Also, OO and laziness mean that F# is closer to what you (probably) already know, so it is probably easier to learn.
Platform : Haskell has its own runtime, F# uses .NET. I don't know what the performance difference is, although I suspect the average code is about the same before optimisation. F# has the advantage if you need the .NET libraries.
Object orientation : F# has OO, and is very careful to make sure that .NET classes are easy to use even if your code isn't OO. Haskell has type classes which let you do something like OO, in a weird sort of way. They are like Ruby mixins crossed with Common Lisp generic functions. They're a little like Java/C# interfaces.
Laziness : Haskell is lazy, F# is not. Laziness enables some nice tricks and makes some things that look slow actually execute fast. But I find it a lot harder to guess how fast my code will run. Both languages let you use the other model, you just have to be explicit about it in your code.
Minor differences:
- Syntax : Haskell has slightly nicer syntax in my opinion. It's a little more terse and regular, and I like declaring types on a separate line. YMMV.
- Tools : F# has excellent Visual Studio integration, if you like that sort of thing. Haskell also has an older Visual Studio plugin, but I don't think it ever got out of beta. Haskell has a simple emacs mode, and you can probably use OCaml's tuareg-mode to edit F#.
- Side effects : Both languages make it pretty obvious when you are mutating variables. But Haskell's compiler also forces you to mark side effects whenever you use them. The practical difference is that you have to be a lot more aware of when you use libraries with side effects as well.
