Looking away from the details of specific implementations of functional programming, I see two key issues:
It seems comparatively rare that it is practical to choose a functional model of some real-world problem over an imperative one. When the problem domain is imperative, using a language with that characteristic is a natural and reasonable choice (since it is in general advisable to minimize the distance between the specification and implementation as part of reducing the number of subtle bugs). Yes, this can be overcome by a smart-enough coder, but if you need Rock Star Coders for the task, it's because it's too bloody hard.
For some reason that I never really understood, functional programming languages (or perhaps their implementations or communities?) are much more likely to want to have everything in their language. There's much less use of libraries written in other languages. If someone else has a particularly good implementation of some complex operation, it makes much more sense to use that instead of making your own. I suspect that this is in part a consequence of the use of complex runtimes which make handling foreign code (and especially doing it efficiently) rather difficult. I'd love to be proved wrong on this point.
I suppose these both come back to a general lack of pragmatism caused by functional programming being much more strongly used by programming researchers than common coders. A good tool can enable an expert to great things, but a great tool is one that enables the common man to approach what an expert can do normally, because that's by far the more difficult task.