Alright, after doing a ton of research and trying almost every managed CPP Redist I can find as well as trying to copy my DLLs locally to the executing directory of the app
Typically I've found that the pragma comment style manifest decleration's to be much more error free, from a developer maintenence and an over all build action perspective. The XML manifest's are natoriously snafu.
The fimiluarity with how the linker operates and the usual compilation of C code and the fact that you simply tak this in, onto one of your source files, keeps everything a bit feeling more "together";
#pragma comment(linker, \
"\"/manifestdependency:type='Win32' "\
"name='Microsoft.Windows.Common-Controls' "\
"version='6.0.0.0' "\
"processorArchitecture='*' "\
"publicKeyToken='6595b64144ccf1df' "\
"language='*'\"")