I know you can do something like this in python:
>>> conditional = False
>>> x = [1 if conditional else 2, 3, 4]
[ 2, 3, 4 ]
Use concatenation:
x = ([1] if conditional else []) + [3, 4]
In other words, generate a sublist that either has the optional element in it, or is empty.
Demo:
>>> conditional = False
>>> ([1] if conditional else []) + [3, 4]
[3, 4]
>>> conditional = True
>>> ([1] if conditional else []) + [3, 4]
[1, 3, 4]
This concept works for more elements too, of course:
x = ([1, 2, 3] if conditional else []) + [4, 5, 6]