Thanks for taking a look at this.
I started a beginner\'s tutorial on RoR through lynda.com. I followed the instructions to the letter. Everything was working so far
I ran into the same problem as you (also attempting to go through the Lynda course), and also being a newbie I got pretty frustrated pretty quickly.
Buuuuut, after some searching, I found and answer here I got it to work.
First, I installed the 32-bit version of MySQL, as opposed to the 64-bit version, but I'm not sure if that made a difference.
Then, uninstall the Mysql gem
gem uninstall mysql2
then reinstall it
sudo gem install mysql2
and finally
sudo install_name_tool -change libmysqlclient.18.dylib /usr/local/mysql/lib/libmysqlclient.18.dylib /Library/Ruby/Gems/1.8/gems/mysql2-0.2.7/lib/mysql2/mysql2.bundle
and you should be good to go! Worked for me anyways. good luck!