I have a relativeLayout like below:
I think If i put an control A in the relativelayout, then i add control B and declare it's on the left of the control A, the result should be the control B will push the control A to its right, right?
Your assumption is incorrect, the control A will not be pushed to the right unless you specified this with a RelativeLayout.LayoutParams rule. RelativeLayout places its children one one top of each other starting at the top-left corner of the screen if you don't specify placement rules for them. When you add the View A to the RelativeLayout without any rules(like layout_alignParentRight) it will be placed starting from the top-left corner of the screen. Then, when you add the View B, the rule to_leftOf will apply to this View position but this rule doesn't mean anything for the View A who will maintain its position on the screen. This will make View B to be place to the left of View A but outside of the screen as View A bounds start from the left border of the screen.
The Button will be placed to the left of the ListView when you use layout_alignParentRight="true" because there is now space to actually see the Button(it's not outside anymore). addView(View child, int index, LayoutParams params) works in a LinearLayout because the LinearLayout arranges its children in a row or column(depending on orientation) so when you add a View at a specific position, it will push the other Views after it to the right or below(depending on orientation)(there is no relative positioning of the views in a LinearLayout, the only rule is that the children come one after the other).
Starting with the ListView without any rules set on it, here is an example on how to make the Button to appear on the left of the ListView:
RelativeLayout.LayoutParams layoutParams = new RelativeLayout.LayoutParams(LayoutParams.WRAP_CONTENT,LayoutParams.WRAP_CONTENT);
Button button2 = new Button(this);
button2.setText("I am button 2");
button2.setId(1000);
m_relativeLayout.addView(button2, layoutParams);
RelativeLayout.LayoutParams rlp = (RelativeLayout.LayoutParams) m_listView
.getLayoutParams();
rlp.addRule(RelativeLayout.RIGHT_OF, button2.getId());
The Button will be added as normal to the screen and it will appear starting from the top-left corner of the screen. Without the two lines from the code above the Button and ListView will overlap as this is the normal behavior of RelativeLayout for children without any rules on them. We then explicitly modify the position of the ListView to move it to the right(with the last two line from the code above).